Terry Gillis of Carswell Partners wrote a post on your image, specifically your attire when at work. In his post, Terry questions why people would dress wearing Cargo pants, flip-flops and other less professional attire when going to work. I get his question and it is something that I have struggled with my entire career.
When I first started my career, I was employed by a bank. Like you might expect at a bank, most dressed in a reasonably professional manner. Dress pants, buttoned shirt, dress shoes for the technical and support staff. Managers often added a tie. Senior executives typically wore suits. There were some exceptions, but for the most part that was the norm. Being new to my job, I unconsicously followed the trend, typically wearing dress pants, buttoned shirt, dress shoes configuration. People when meeting you, immediately assumed a certain position level, experience, and intelligence based on what you wore. I also observed that people who chose to dress differently than their role, a non-manager that suddenly wore a tie for example would be noticed. Many wouldn’t say anything, but you could tell by their body language they noticed it. Sometimes there would be a comment like “Joe is wearing a tie today, he must be interviewing” or something to that effect. It was almost a way of indirectly saying “your dress doesn’t match your role.”
Eventually, I left the bank to work for a small consulting firm. This firm provided network security and network designs for tier 1 service providers around the world. I was also now interacting with both engineers and executive management on a regular basis. Initially, I tried dressing more formally wearing a jacket and sometimes a tie. The problem was that most engineers didn’t take me very seriously. They would initially view me as a management type that didn’t understand the ‘technical details of network flows and security’. I would consciously dispel those thoughts in the first few meetings, but I found I had to make a point of proving my technical capabilities and it caused the relationship to have a much ‘slower’ start. If however I matched the technical teams dress, things were easier. It was a weird correlation to me, but it seemed to be present at most clients I visited. Of course, the reverse was also true. When I had meetings where I was providing updates to the executives, things seemed to go much better when I was dressed similar to what they were wearing.
Today, working for a financial institution once again, I actually dress depending on what I am doing for the day, who I am meeting and which location I will be in. If I am working at head-office (usually 2-3 times per week) I wear a suit and tie. I find that most dress business formal at head-office. If I am at one of our other locations, then it is business casual which is dress pants, shirt and optional jacket (although I usually have a jacket on). On Friday’s the business causal seems acceptable at head-office as well.
Where did the idea of wearing flip-flops to work come from? Well, I am no expert my first experience was when working for small tech companies. I realized they rarely if ever dressed formally. That was actually one of the perks. If you were smart, good at what you did, and had a passion for the work, then they hired you based on that. Didn’t matter what you wore, if you had an earring or a tattoo. Look at most pictures or videos of Steve Jobs from Apple – Jeans and a black t-shirt is his standard attire. These companies believe they are hiring you for your passion, knowledge, and skill – period. During this part of my career, I always had a change of clothes in my office, car or hotel. If external clients or potential clients were visiting, I would quickly change, otherwise I dressed comfortably and casual. I remember times when a group of us would be interviewing potential candidates for technical positions and if the candidate overdressed, a comment was usually made after the interview had concluded. It wasn’t a decision point, but it was noted.
One of the reasons I try really hard to consciously not judge someone based on their dress but on their personality, what they say and how they act is because of my experiences with dress. The turning point for me was when I realized that by dressing certain ways, you can make others feel more comfortable or less comfortable, depending on what you want to achieve. If you want people to be comfortable working with you, dress plays a key factor. Logically this doesn’t make sense to me, and I personally try hard to not judge based on dress. But I have learned that depending on the environment dressing appropriately makes things a little easier for me and more importantly the people I interact with so I try to follow along as much as possible.


